Saturday, July 7, 2012

Relationship Reflection

It is important from the time we are born to have positive relationships in our lives. Throughout my life there have been many relationships that shaped who I am today. There are people that came into my life for a reason and those who remain by my side today.
The first person that comes to mind when I think of a positive relationship is my dear father. He just visited me and I truly enjoyed the moments we spent together. My father brings a sense of comfort to me and what I learned from him is how to deal with people of all walks of life.
Another person that comes to mind that provide me with a positive relationship through my life would be my mother. Having a mother is one of the best experiences I have encountered in a relationship. My relationship with my mother taught me how to deal with conflict and over come obstacles in order to move forward in a positive light.
Another person that comes to mind is a friend whose friendship taught me to love everyone unconditionally, including myself. Through this friendship I learned to be selfless with others and I learned to love myself.
My relationship with my current supervisor is a rewarding experience. I love the way I can express myself with her and her door is always open. She is never above taking suggestions from me or hearing my opinion. Although she is my supervisor she makes me feel like her equal and for that I appreciate her. When she offers constructive criticism I accept it as a way for me to become better because that’s way she delivers the message to me.
There are so many positive relationships I could name, the ones above are just a few that came to mind. It’s important to have positive relationship because these relationships allow for wisdom to share with others. With all of these positive relationships, what all of them included were communication, understanding, and selflessness. All of these things mentioned are important to maintain and have positive relationships.
Lastly, being able to have positive relationships will enhance my connection with children and their families. Having knowledge and experience of positive relationships, I will be able to give families and staff some of the tools that helped me maintain the positive relationships in my life. At the same time, realistically it is not always easy to have positive relationships and it takes work from all parties, knowing this I will be able to offer staff and families support through any challenges that they may face.

2 comments:

  1. Stephanie,
    Thank you for sharing your relationships with me. Your comment ooabout your supervisor touched home with me. I home as a supervisor that I reach and support them the way that yours does. It is wonderful to know how impactful my role can be on someone's life.

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  2. Steffanie,
    I think having a positive relationship with your supervisor that is meaningful is fantastic. I really like my supervisors, but it didn't even cross my mind when completing this exercise. Thank you for highlighting this area. Also, you mentioned having positive relationships with your kids and their families. My children are all pretty young, but I hope to have a great relationship when the time comes with all of the new members of my family and extend our circles of support.

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