Evaluating My Communication Skills

After evaluating how I communicate with others and how others view me as a communicator I noticed there were some differences and similarities. For example, my supervisor viewed my listening style as action oriented. Conversely, my husband viewed my listening style as content oriented. On the other hand, when I completed the evaluation on my listening skills, it concluded that I am a people oriented person. One of the things that surprise me the most is that I am considered a people oriented person. Since I am more of an introvert, I never perceived myself as being people oriented. After reviewing the evaluations I was able to recognize that different relationships require us to communicate differently. Understanding that there are differences in the way people communicate is important on a personal and professional standpoint. Another important lesson I learn through this exercise is that communication is a never ending learning experience. Therefore, it is important to make goals whether personally or professionally to improve on the blemishes and strengths we have when communicating. We should always dissect and work towards improving our flaws and building on our strengths in order to communicate effectively.