Communicating Effectively

Everyone is different and therefore when I find myself communicating with people who are different from me I communicate according to the situation and the person. For example, if I am communicating with a child I may use language that the child may understand based on their age. If I am communicating with someone who doesn’t speak English I might use symbols or pictures to illustrate what I am saying.

One of the things that help me to communicate effectively with people who are different is to ask questions. Asking questions is very important when communicating with people of different groups. In order for me to understand a person perspective, it is important for me to ask questions to clarify and understand where the person’s perspective stems from.

Another important thing to do when communicating with groups that are different is to listen without judgment. Often times people are quick to judge when the other person doesn’t think the same way we do. Being open and not judging is an essential part of communicating effectively.

Lastly, being open to learning something new can create better communication with others. Being open is not only beneficial for me to learn from others but it also lets the other person feel comfortable enough to express their thoughts and ideas. If I am listening with an open mind then the other person will feel more open to share their perspective.

Analyzing Communication

The blog this week required me to watch an episode of a show I have never seen without the sound on and make assumptions based upon non verbal cues and the way the characters communicate. After watching the show with the sound off, I then watched the show with the sound on to evaluate whether or not my assumptions were correct.

I decided to watch an episode of a show called “Baby Daddy”. Based upon the way the characters are communicating, it appears that the characters consist of four friends. Three of the friends are roommates. There is a knock on the door and they open the door to find a baby. The look on their faces when they saw the baby was complete shock. There eyes bulged out and their mouths were open. There surprise look meant they did not know who this baby belonged too and they had no idea how to care for a baby. Their eye brows was raised, shoulders up and hand out as if to say what do we do with this baby. One of the guys tried holding the baby. He held the baby away from him like an object with his eyes looking confused and he appeared uncomfortable with the idea of holding a baby. It was clear without the sound that all three men had no idea how to take care of a baby. There is a knock on the door and there is a young lady who appears to be a friend. She clearly had experienced with babies because she automatically walked in and looked at the baby pleasantly while smiling. She then picked the baby up and hugged her to soothe her.

After watching the show with the sound on, I was surprised to see that my predictions were spot on. The only thing I was not able to figure out while watching the show with the sound off is who dropped the baby off. The baby was actually dropped off by one of the men ex-girlfriend. He had no idea he had a baby. The mother ran off and left the baby at the door.

This activity affirmed to me that communication is not only based on verbal cues. I was able to watch a show I have never seen without sound and was able to get the synopsis of the storyline. Although I didn’t fully get the whole story I think I was able to get the main idea without hearing the verbal cues. Taking part in an activity like this allowed me to appreciate that communication can be achieved with  non- verbal cues and has made me more aware of the non-verbal cues when I am communicating with others. 

Demonstrating Competent Communication

Although, I never depict myself to model a person, since I am big on being a unique individual. With that said, there are some individuals that are admirable to me and one of them is Oprah Winfrey. One of things that I enjoy about watching Oprah is she always displays effective communication. She demonstrates eloquence when she speaks, respect towards others and their views, and she gives a sense of comfort when she is conversing with others. Oprah has interviewed many individuals in her lifetime, from celebrities to pedophiles. Throughout all her interviews she remains respectable and at times she may not agree with the person; however she still allows them to tell their story. The behavior she exhibits as a communicator is something I would definitely implement into my own life personally and professionally. Sometimes when you are communicating with someone, you may not agree with their opinion but it is important to listen to the person’s views without bias, this something Oprah is able to do.